We cheated on my spouse because We decided to. No excuses. No rationalizations. No fault. We cheated. ThatвЂ™s it. We was indeed together for 21 years. We hurt everyone else i enjoy as a result of a selfish decisionвЂ¦and this is a decisionвЂ¦not an accident. We arrived clean to everyone else that really matters. Because lies spoil every thing. We discovered that the wayвЂ¦which that is hard like a simple way at that time.