In identical vein, itвЂ™s your partnerвЂ™s responsibility to be clear with you to have that level of intimacy with you with you about whether her terms are the same: does she want to spend that much time? Or would she choose a relationship which involves periodic, although not constant, regular closeness? (Some might explain this as being a вЂњsecondaryвЂќ relationship.) It is okay on her to desire less closeness, but then she owes it to you to be honest about that if thatвЂ™s the case.
If as it happens your relationship terms donвЂ™t match to your partnerвЂ™s, or if perhaps she claims which they do, but her behavior still does not alter, it is likely time for you to earn some hard decisions, Lonely woman. Can you really cut back your desires and objectives and accept a less-intimate relationship by having a heart that is full? Or would that only make you disappointed, resentful and wanting more?